Understand the Trauma

Marriages that experience emotional or sexual infidelity are traumatized – often the Betrayed feels rejected and the Betrayer shamed.ย  The pain is excruciating!ย  We work with your physician if you aren’t able to eat or sleep or need FMLA assistance.ย  For Crisis: schedule a 1 or 2 day intensive to expedite stabilization of partners and home life.

Learn the Steps

There is a dual process that experienced Affair Recovery (AR) therapists balance in your healing.ย  Inexperienced AR therapists are not always aware, and the process can easily become off-balanced. Trauma & stabilization and depth psychology skills are tools needed in both processes.ย  Our expert therapists can guide you through the pain and recovery process.

Choose Your Method

If total disclosure hasn’t been done, you may opt to schedule a 2-hour session for full disclosure.ย  If you are in crisis, you may need to schedule weekly sessions.ย  If you are far enough along in the recovery process, you may need bi-monthly sessions.ย  Let us help you choose.


Healing from Infidelity

Couples Counseling | Affair Recovery | Embrace New Life

Couples who have been traumatized by infidelity need an experienced marriage counselor with training in affair recovery. Infidelity is traumatic and causes significant emotional distress and family system disruption. I have co-led several weekend retreats locally, in Austin and South Africa. I am able to help stabilize the trauma and gently guide the hurting couple into relationship repair.

There are unique therapy needs of the Rebuilder who injured the marriage bond, and unique needs of the Betrayed. Our work together will look at the various stages of the marriage, what derailed the marriage and together we will create a plan to secure the marriage from any future intrusion.

This is not an easy process. Make an appointment today to begin your healing journey.

When repair is not an option, I can come alongside the couple to help them end well and stage both parents for success in future co-parenting and blending.

If your spouse has left the marriage, or if the infidelity or betrayal happened years ago, healing is still possible. I also work with survivors to heal from the scars of infidelity and betrayal.

Our couple clients who are in crisis and in need of a 3-day off-site intensive, we recommend the Hideaway experience.